The babe you're trying to chat up will probably have to put up with a million other guys like you who are trying to impress her. So ditch the tall tales of how many sports cars you own, or how many countries you've explored and just follow these steps to maintain her interest.
Go Hard, Fall Gracefully
Be humble. Show confidence without putting on airs. A woman will sense - and evade - any false swagger, so disable that mechanism. If you flop, fail with a smile.
Be confident and relaxed, says Lyn, 30. Use a conversation starter like “Do you come here often? The music is good, huh?”she suggests. “Just don't be cocky.”
Stop Trying For Clever
Start with a "hi". Your initial goal should be simply to prove that you're a normal, well-adjusted guy. Once you've learned more about her through conversation, turn on the charm.
Being direct works fine, says Elaine, 27. “There's no need to be too funny especially if she doesn't get your joke and you end up having to repeat it and then you end up looking like a bigger loser, especially in a noisy club.” she says. “Just ask “How are you?” is a good enough ice-breaker.”
Get Her Hooked On Your Interests
If you love playing the guitar, teach her to pick out the different parts of a song. Passion is contagious and opening her up to new things will make her want you more. What if you can't play a guitar? Then go and learn it, quickly!
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